Here are three important things to keep in mind when doing this.
First of all, keep it casual and make it about both of you; not just you.
Don't ask her out from a needy place.
For instance, don't say "I would like to see you again.
" It's better to say "It would be great to see you again" or "It would be nice for us to meet up again.
" In other words, try to eliminate the "I" factor and try to incorporate the "us" factor as much as you can.
Secondly, make sure you convey the message to her that you're a busy man who's in demand whose time is precious and valuable.
So when you're actually trying to work out the day you're both going to meet up, try to avoid saying things like "Oh, I'm free all next week" or "How about next weekend" or worst of all, "You decide.
" Instead, say to her: "Unfortunately this week is so busy.
Let me get this week out the way and we can do something the following week.
" Also make sure you don't forget to say "unfortunately" because you don't want to come across as too arrogant.
Try and aim for a Tuesday or Wednesday as the two days that you're free.
Don't propose weekends because girls are usually busy on weekends.
Plus, if you have you're weekends available for her on such short notice, you're going to look like you don't have much of a social life.
Tuesdays and Wednesdays are ideal as most people don't have something going on those two evenings.
Last but not the least is future projections.
Using future projections is when you paint a picture of how it's going to be when you're both together.
Guys tend to get this wrong in that they get a little bit too intense and romantic.
For instance, they might say to the girl: "Oh me and you, I can just see us having this amazing connection" or "Me and you, we're just going to have such a really good time.
" By doing this you're putting pressure on her.
Instead, be a little bit more playful and somewhat cheeky about it.
For example, let's say you're going to take her to a movie, you could say to her: "You know what? I can see you talking the whole way through that movie.
You're going to be one of those girls just talking into my ear the whole time.
" Now, in all likelihood, she'll immediately be qualifying herself to you by trying to convince you that she's not that kind of girl or she might even be playful back by accusing you of being the kind of guy who talks throughout movies.
In any case, what's important here with the future projections is that she's no longer deciding whether or not she wants to see you again.
That's done; she's made up her mind that she'll go out with you without even realizing it and she's talking about the actual date now.
That's exactly what you want - game, set, match.